The Vedic system of choosing a wife or husband has been used in India for many centuries. Itsnot that this is an exact science and does not guarantee that there won’t be problems, as this material world means problems, but with the underlying assets of the Vedic culture and positive assistance of a stable society, this system has yielded very good results in determining marriage compatibility. There are many things to be both known and looked into regarding this matter, not that simply two people are brought together based on marriage compatibility determined using horoscopes. Additionally there are subtle variations that are observed based on the region of India under consideration. For example in South India - Rajju and Dosha Samya are considered very important and matching horoscopes are rejected if Rajju and Dosha Samya don’t exist. On a similar note in the northern parts of India the “kutas” or “bathisgunn” are viewed more importantly than other criteria. The MatchMaker does not impose any of these parochial restrictions and hence the user is advised to use their own discretion.
The MatchMaker Report consists of three pages each with a top and bottom section.
The top section in the first page of the report shows a summary of the matching criteria used. The marriage compatibility determination based on the study of horoscopes done by the Matchmaker program, as represented in this report, includes :
- Comparison of the Dwadasa (12) items of matching which is also called kutas.
- Comparison of the Kalatra Dosh due to Mars, Sun, Saturn and Rahu with reference to the Lagna, Moon and Venus.
- Comparison of the positions of all the planets (Navagrahas) in the 12 houses (Bhavas) of the two horoscopes.
In the above analysis items 1 and 2 are assigned a total of 50 points and item 3 is assigned a total of 20 points. The criteria for the compatibility used by the Matchmaker program is to obtain a minimum of 50% of the points for item 1, obtain a minimum of 50% of the points for item 3 and agreement of item 2. The bottom section gives the data summary of the boy and the girl whose horoscopes are being matched.
The top section of the second page of the report shows the location of planets in the Rashi chart from which the Dosha Samya determination is made. If the girl’s dosha exceeds the boys dosha by more than 75% then there is considered to be no Dosha Samya. The bottom section of the second page of the report shows the location of the planets in the Navamsa chart. This table shows the comparison of the positions of all the planets (Navagrahas) in the 12 houses (Bhavas) of the two horoscopes. The table shows the points achieved by the boy and girl out of a maximum of 20 points.
The top section of the third page of the report shows the details of matching. This is also identified as the “kutas” or “baatisgunn”. Besides the kutas, the Kalatra Dosha computations are also shown in this table. The maximum points of agreement that can be obtained are 50 and the points derived for the agreement of the horoscopes of the boy and girl are shown. The bottom section of the third page summarizes the matching conclusion based on the three criteria outlined above. The overall marriage compatibility index is then presented as a percentage where a maximum value of 100% would imply an ‘ideal’ match and any value below 50% is not considered as a match. Note that even the ‘ideal’ celestial couple of Shiva and Parvati scored a 92% using this scheme of matching.
Hence a matching index above 50% ( the closer it is to 100% the better the match ), along with individual acceptance factors like age, qualification, appearance, profession, pedigree, etc., should determine the true acceptance of the boy or girl for the marriage decision.
Outlined below are brief descriptions of the various criteria used in determining the marriage compatibility like Dosha, Dwadasa items also known as ‘kutas’ or ‘batisgunn’, and exception criteria for overlooking specific matching items.
Indicates one's fortune, or misfortune brought about by, or according to the match. This is determined by counting the constellations of the boy from that of the girl and divide the number by 9. If the remainder is 2, 4, 6, 8 or 0 it is considered as good.
Example : The constellation of the boy (Mrigasira in Taurus) counted from that of the girl (Dhanistha in Makara) gives 10. This is divided by 9 leaving a remainder of 1 and hence there is no agreement, and no units of strength are scored.
This has an important bearing on the temperament and character of the perspective couple concerned. Compatibility of temperament is called for in vedic astrology. A difference of temperament may be harmonious and complimentary. It is said that for there to be Rasa in relationships there has to be some difference, something for one to suggest and for the other to find out. But the focal point has to be at least the same so that a compatibility of temperament is there, it is essential for the satisfaction of any partnership including a peaceful marriage union. If not, one will neglect the needs of the wife or beat the wife, or not be able to communicate with the husband or not know each other's nature, mood, and liking's etc.
Three Ganas (temperaments of nature) are to be taken into consideration - Deva (divine), Manusha (human), and Raksasa (devil). Deva represents piety, goodness of character and charitable nature. Manusha is a mixture of good and bad, while the Raksasa suggests dominance, selfishness and sometimes violence. These different natures are indicated by their birth constellation (janma nakshatra). A distaste for piety and religion etc., cannot be easily compatible with that of a religious and pious person. A difference in beliefs and values cannot be overbalanced or set right by sexual compatibility. Thus accordingly, one whose karma is that he is born in this world with the nature of Raksasa Ganam probably will not get on well with the person of Deva Ganam.
A Deva can marry a Deva, a Manusha can marry a Manusha, and a Raksasa can marry a Raksasa. Another point is that a Manusha or Deva man should not try to marry a Raksasa girl unless there are neutralizing factors. But marriage between a Raksasa man and a Deva or Manusha girl is all right. If marriage is performed between prohibited Ganas there will be constant quarrels and disharmony.
Deva Ganams are usually people with the following nakshatras : Punarvasu, Pushyami, Swati, Hastha, Sravana, Revathi, Anuradha, Mrigasira, and Aswini.
Manusha Ganams are usually the following nakshatras : Rohini, Purva, Purvashadha, Purvabhadrapad, Bharani, Arudra, Uttara Phalguni, Uttarashadha, Uttarabhadrapad.
Raksasa Ganams are usually the following nakshatras : Krittika, Aslesha, Magha, Chitra, Visakha Jyestha, Mula, Dhanistha, Satabhisakam
Exception : As a neutralising factor for Ganas often it is said that if the nakshatra of the bride is beyond the 14th from that of the grooms the evil influences may be nullified and thus it may be all right to ignore the Gana in the matching.
This refers to happiness together. The constellation of the boy counted from that of the girl should be the 4th, 7th, 10th, 13th, 16th, 19th, 22nd or 25th. This combination promotes well being and longevity of the couple.
Example A Mrigasira nakshatra boy is the 10th from a Dhanistha. This is considered a good combination.
The boy's constellation should be beyond the 9th from that of the girl and in some cases 7 nakshatras are acceptable. For example Mrigasira is beyond 9 nakshatras from Dhanistha, so agreement is there.
Exception: This is may be overlooked if the Rashi Kuta and Graha Maitri are a match.
Yoni is explained to mean various things like nature, the vagina, however it generally implies sex. So Yoni Kuta really gives the strength of the sexual urges of the couple. Each nature is equated with an animal according to the capacity of indulgence, and mode of regard. This is given again according to the janma nakshatra (birth constellation).
Someone being born under the influence of the Simha (Leo) will have their characteristics and tendencies like that of a lion, while another say born in Aries will be of a more timid and mild nature. If both partners have male nakshatras there will be many fights for supremacy. If the male is allowed to take the male role and the female the female role, natural harmony is found which does not interfere with their seeking the higher goals of life. One can imagine though the problems if the male is dominated by the female, checked on, always corrected, not trusted, embarrassed in public, treated like a child, etc. Therefore Yoni Kuta takes into account these aspect of marriage and indicates by astrology what externals one will bear, sexual urge, sexual compatibility, size of copulatory organs and their compatibility and so on. The nakshatras are :
ASWIM |
Satabhisakam 0 |
Horse |
BHARANI * |
Revathi # |
Elephant |
PUSYAMI |
Krittika # |
Sheep |
ROHINI |
Mrigasira 0 |
Serpent |
MULA 0 |
Arudra |
Dog |
ASLESHA * |
Punarvasu # |
Cat |
MAGHA * |
Purvaphalguni |
Rat |
UTTARAPHALGUNI * |
Uttarabhadrapada |
Cow |
SWATI * |
Hastha |
Buffalo |
VISAKHA * |
Chitra |
Tiger |
JYESTHA * |
Anuradha |
Hare |
PURVASHADHA * |
Sravana |
Monkey |
PURVABHADRAPADA |
Dhanistha |
Lion |
UTTARASHADHA * |
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Mongoose |
* In many panjikas it will say that these nakshatras are FEMALE, but they still have the copulatory natures of their Yoni.
0 Denotes that in some panjikas these nakshatras are listed as HERMAPHRODITE, but still the Yoni has effect. Some maybe more male, some more female.
# In some panjikas indicates a MALE nakshatra.
Again to determine these nakshatras their natures are to be looked at. Some males are very masculine, some are masculine with a little effeminate streak. Some females are very feminine whereas others have masculine streaks. Even among Hermaphrodites some are Male orientated while others are more Female. In the shastra, as well as kama sutra, it is stated that marriage between the same class of yoni of male and female brings great happiness, for it is natural harmony. Compatibility of male and female among friendly yonis, with both having female nakshatras, will at least bring a fair amount of harmony and agreement. However in marriage between both male nakshatras there will always be fighting even if of the same yoni. The pairs of COW & TIGER, ELEPHANT & LION, HORSE & BUFFALO, DOG & HARE, SERPENT & MONGOOSE, MONKEY & GOAT, CAT & RAT, as they are their natural prey, thus marriage would be torment. All other naturally hostile pairs should be avoided, irrespective of how much the sexual impulse is pushing to unite.
Horse |
4 |
2 |
2 |
3 |
2 |
2 |
2 |
Elephant |
2 |
4 |
3 |
3 |
2 |
2 |
2 |
Sheep |
2 |
3 |
4 |
2 |
1 |
2 |
1 |
Serpent |
3 |
3 |
2 |
4 |
2 |
1 |
1 |
Dog |
2 |
2 |
1 |
2 |
4 |
2 |
1 |
Cat |
2 |
2 |
2 |
1 |
2 |
4 |
0 |
Rat |
2 |
2 |
1 |
1 |
1 |
0 |
4 |
Cow |
1 |
2 |
3 |
1 |
2 |
2 |
2 |
Buffalo |
0 |
3 |
3 |
1 |
2 |
2 |
2 |
Tiger |
1 |
1 |
1 |
2 |
1 |
1 |
2 |
Hare |
1 |
2 |
2 |
2 |
0 |
3 |
2 |
Monkey |
3 |
3 |
0 |
2 |
2 |
3 |
2 |
Mongoose |
2 |
2 |
3 |
0 |
1 |
2 |
1 |
Lion |
1 |
0 |
1 |
2 |
1 |
1 |
2 |
Horse |
1 |
0 |
1 |
3 |
3 |
2 |
1 |
Elephant |
2 |
3 |
1 |
2 |
3 |
2 |
0 |
Sheep |
3 |
3 |
1 |
2 |
0 |
3 |
1 |
Serpent |
1 |
1 |
2 |
2 |
2 |
0 |
2 |
Dog |
2 |
2 |
1 |
0 |
2 |
1 |
1 |
Cat |
2 |
2 |
1 |
3 |
3 |
2 |
1 |
Rat |
2 |
2 |
2 |
2 |
2 |
1 |
2 |
Cow |
4 |
3 |
0 |
3 |
2 |
2 |
1 |
Buffalo |
3 |
4 |
1 |
2 |
2 |
2 |
1 |
Tiger |
0 |
1 |
4 |
1 |
1 |
2 |
1 |
Hare |
3 |
2 |
1 |
4 |
2 |
2 |
1 |
Monkey |
2 |
2 |
1 |
2 |
4 |
3 |
2 |
Mongoose |
2 |
2 |
2 |
2 |
3 |
4 |
2 |
Lion |
1 |
2 |
1 |
1 |
2 |
2 |
4 |
If the Rashi of the boy happens to be the 2nd house from that of the girl, and if the Rashi of the girl happens to be the 12th house from that of the boy, all kinds of evil, unwanted results will follow. But if the Rashi of the boy falls within the 12th from the girl's or the Rashi is the 2nd from that of the boy's, it implies longevity for the couple. If the Rashi of the boy is the 3rd from the girl’s there will be misery and sorrow. But if the Rashi of the girl is the 3rd from the boy there will be happiness. If the boy's Rashi falls in the 4th house from that of the girl’s, then there will always be great poverty; but if the Rashi of the girl happens to be in the 4th house from the boy there will be great wealth. If the boy's Rashi falls in the 5th house from the girl unhappiness can be expected. And if the girl's Rashi is in the 5th house from the boy's, there will be enjoyment and prosperity. Where the Rashis of the boy and the girl are both in the 7th houses mutually, then there will be agreement on health and happiness. If the boy's Rashi falls in the 6th house from the girl's there will be a loss of children, but if the girl's is the 6th from the boy's, then progeny will prosper.
Exception When both the Rashis are owned by one planet or if the lords of the two Rashis happen to be friends, then any malefic effects attributed to the inauspicious placement of any planets is cancelled out.
Rashi-adipati (Graha Maitram)
In all actuality this is an important kuta as it deals with the psychological dispositions of the couple, their individual mental attitudes and their affection for each other. In considering Graha Maitram, the friendships between the lords of the janma rashis of the two people concerned is very important in determining compatibility for marriage.
PLANETARY FRIENDSHIPS |
PLANET |
FRIEND |
NEUTRAL |
ENEMY |
Sun |
Moon, Mars, Jupiter |
Mercury |
Saturn, Venus |
Moon |
Sun, Mercury |
Mars, Jupiter, Venus, Saturn |
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Mars |
Sun, Moon, Jupiter |
Venus, Saturn |
Mercury |
Mercury |
Sun, Venus |
Mars, Jupiter, Saturn |
Moon |
Jupiter |
Sun, Moon, Mars |
Saturn |
Mercury, Venus |
Venus |
Mercury, Saturn |
Mars, Jupiter |
Sun, Moon |
Saturn |
Mercury, Venus |
Jupiter |
Sun, Moon, Mars |
According to the shastra it is not the temporary dispositions based on karma that the individual is going through that is to be taken into consideration, it is the birth constellation and not the birth chart as a whole. For marriage we want to see the nature and the phases that the persons are due to go through. This generally will be very difficult to analyze without the use of Vedic astrology. In the Vedic samskaras, when arranged marriages were organized properly the couple were brought together each willing with an open mind and heart, knowing that marriage was a life long endeavor
When the lords of the janma rashis of the bride and bridegroom are friends, the Rashi-adipati is said to obtain full strength. When one is a friend and the other is neutral, it is passable or a right, and when both are neutral, Rashi-adipati is considered very ordinary. When both are enemies, Rashi-adipati does not exist.
Exception Even when there is no friendship between the janma rashi lords of the bride and groom, Rashi_adipati can be obtained by friendships of the planets on the Navamsas occupied by the Moon.
Example If the janma rashi lords are Venus and Saturn. Both are friends. Therefore the Rashi-adipati is complete. Supposing the bride and bride-groom are born in Makha 2 (Leo) and Satabhisha 2 (Saturn). The lords will be the Sun and Saturn respectively and they are not friends. In such a case if the Navamsa relationship is considered, then the Moon will be in Taurus (Venus) and Capricorn (Saturn) respectively. Venus and Saturn are friends and therefore the match is permissible.
This is important as suggesting the degree or magnetic control or amenability the wife or husband would be able to exercise on the other. For Aries - Leo and Scorpio are amenable; for Taurus - Cancer and Libra; for Gemini - Virgo; for Cancer - Scorpio and Sagittarius; for Leo - Capricorn and Virgo; for Scorpio - Cancer; for Sagittarius - Pisces; for Capricorn - Aries and Aquarius; for Aquarius - Aries; and for Pisces - Capricorn.
This indicates the strength or duration of married life and therefore it merits special attention. The 27 constellations have been grouped into five types of Rajju.
Padarajju |
Aswini, Aslesha, Makha, Jyestha, Mula, Revati. |
Katirajju |
Bharani, Pushyami, Purva, Anuradha, Poorvashadha, Uttarabhadra. |
Udararajju |
Krittika, Punarvasu, Uttara, Visakha, Uttarashadha, Poorvabhadra |
Kantharajju |
Rohini, Arudra, Hasta, Swati, Sravana, and Satabhisha. |
Sirarajju |
Dhanistha, Chitta and Mrigasira. |
The Janma Nakshatras of the couple should not fall in the same Rajju. If they fall in Sira (head) husband's death is likely; if in Kantha (neck) the wife may die; if in Udara (stomach) the children may die; if in Kati (waist) poverty may ensue; and if in Pada (foot) the couple may be always wandering. Hence, it is desirable that the boy and the girl have constellations belonging to different rajjus or groups for safety in household life.
This means affliction. Certain constellations are capable of affecting or afflicting certain other constellations situated at particular distances from them. For example, Aswini is said to cause Vedha to the 18th constellation from it which is Jyestha; Bharani to the 16th which is Anuradha and so on. The following pairs or constellations affect each other and therefore no marriage should be brought about between a boy and girl whose Janma Nakshatras belong to the same pair unless there are other relieving factors. These pairs are listed below :
Aswini & Jyestha |
Bharani & Anuradha |
Krittika & Visakha |
Rohini & Swati |
Arudra & Sravana |
Punarvasu & Uttarashadha |
Pusyami & Poorvashadha |
Aslesha & Mula |
Makha (Magha) & Revati |
Purva & Uttarabhadra |
Uttara & Purvabhadra |
Hasta & Satabhisha |
Mrigasira & Dhanistha |
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This seems to signify the degree of advancement of spiritual development, and application of those qualities to the marrying partners, as found in Bhagvad Gita 18th chapter. If the sun sign zodiac rashi is Pisces, Scorpio or Cancer it represents the highest development - Brahmin 18:42. If the rashi is Leo, Sagittarius or Libra it indicates Kshatriya 18:43. If the rashi is Aries, Gemini or Aquarius it indicates Vaisya 18:44 while if the rashi is Taurus, Virgo or Capricorn it indicates Sudra 18:44. A girl belonging to a higher grade of spiritual development should not be mated to a boy of lesser development. The vice-versa or both belonging to the same grade or degree is allowed. Birth Varna of a person is not all important in regards to spiritual development, habits or works defined in Bhagavad Gita are. Some other texts slightly differ in the suggested Varnas.
This is considered to be the most significant Kuta. In Sanskrit, Nadi means several things but in reference to astrology, it signifies pulse or nervous energy indicating the physiological and to a certain extent, hereditary factors. The Hindu medical works such as Ayurveda, Shushruta Samhita, Nimi Tantra etc., enumerate three Nadis or humors, viz., Vatha (wind), Pitha (bile) and Sleshma or Kapha (phlegm). A boy with a predominantly windy or phlegmatic or bilious constitution should not marry a girl of the same type. The girl should belong to a different temperament. The three Nadis are ruled by the different constellations as follows:-
VATA |
PITHA |
SLESHMA (KAPHA) |
Aswini |
Bharani |
Krittika |
Punarvasu |
Pushyami |
Aslesha |
Uttara |
Purva |
Makha |
Hasta |
Chitta |
Swati |
Jyestha |
Anuradha |
Visakha |
Mula |
Poorvashadha |
Uttarashadha |
Satabhisha |
Dhanistha |
Sravana |
Purvabhadra |
Uttarabhadra |
Revati |
Arudra |
Mrigasira |
Rohini |
If the constellation of the boy and the girl fall in different rows, then agreement between the couple will be good. They both should not fall in the middle least there will be many fights, too fiery. Stars of the couple may fall in the first and last line under certain circumstances. If Nadi Kuta is not present on the basis of the Nakshatras, then the same may be reckoned taking into account the Nakshatra Padas.
In summary Dhinam gives good luck; Ganam brings wealth; Mahendran develops attachment; Stri Dhirgham promotes welfare; Yoni gives birth to many sons; Rashi shows a growth of family; Rashiadipati indicates prosperity; Vasyam favors development of posterity; Rajju inclines to great happiness in married life and immunity from widowhood; and Vedai gives many sons. Of these 'Considerations', to determine marriage suitability the horoscopes of the man and the woman (boy and girl) must agree in at least five places – Dhinam, Ganam, Yoni, Rasi and Rajju.
The previous sections dealt with the importance of the various Kutas and how the consideration of each Kuta enables us to appreciate the harmony or discord likely to prevail between intending marriage partners. Outlined below are certain contingencies (exceptions) arising by virtue of common Janma Rashi, common birth star and the absence of certain Kutas. There are some commonly acceptable exceptions, however these may differ with individual astrologers.
- The absence of Stri Dhirga may be ignored if Rashi Kuta and Graha Maitri are present.
- If the Rashi of the girl is odd, the 6th and 8th Rashis from hers are friendly. If the Rashi of the girl is even the 2nd and 12th from hers become friendly. The problems or evil due to the birth or the bride in a Rakshasa Gana star may be ignored with Janma Rashi being 2nd and 12th, 9th and 5th, or 6th and 8th, the lords of the Rashis are then the same or are mutual friends.
- Though Graha Maitri is important, it need not be considered if the couple have their Janma Rashis disposed in 1 and 7 from each other.
- Rajju Kuta need not be considered in case Graha Maitri, Rashi, Dina and Mahendra Kutas are present.
- The evil due to Nadi Kuta can be ignored subject to the following conditions:
- the Rashi and the Rajju Kuta prevail
- the same planet is lord of the Janma Rashis of both the male and the female
- the lords of the Janma Rashis of the couple are friends.
In many cases the Janma Rashis or the Janma Nakshatras of the bride and groom would be the same. There are many views with regards to results accruing from Janma Rashis being common. Common Janma Rashis are generally conducive to the couple provided they are born under different (constellations) nakshatras, with the nakshatra of the boy preceding that of the girl for the marriage to prove happy. Common Janma Nakshatra is an extension of the principle of common Janma Rashi. The Janma Nakshatras of the bride and groom being one and the same are approved in the case of Rohini, Arudra, Magha, Hasta, Visakha, Sravana, Uttarabhadrapada and Revati. The effect would be ordinary if the common Nakshatras were Aswini, Krittika, Mrigasira, Punarvasu Pushyami, Purvaphalguni, Uttara, Chitra, Anuradha, Purvashadha and Uttarashadha, Bharani, Aslesha, Swati, Jyestha, Mula, Dhanistha, Satabhishakam and Purvabhadrapada. So in general common nakshatras are not recommended but then again the overall picture has to be seen.
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